I get a lot of email from people who can in some way relate to my situation and story. A lot of these emails are from family members or friends of those falsely accused. While they usually share the story of their loved one with me, they almost always talk about the impact this accusation has had on their family. Because of this, I am launching a new section of the site where my family and friends will be sharing their involvement in the process, and how this ordeal has affected their life, from their own point of view.
The first story of impact will be shared by my mother, “Marie”, who plans to add her two-cents in to other portions of the story as well.
I was falsely accused of sexual abuse against my daughter. I was arrested on two counts of aggravated sexual abuse, but the charges were dropped before I even had a court. I am so grateful for that, but my life feels like its over. I was able to still gain joint physical and legal custody of my kids, which is so awesome, I relish the time I get with them, but I’m scared to even give my little 4year old daughter a hug and kiss now. I miss her and my son so much. I spent about $30,000 on defense and divorce lawyers and the did really well for me, but I still cant see me ever being the person I used to be. I wish I could take action against the arresting police department and the accuser but, I dont know if its possible.
***Edited by IWFA Blog to remove identifying information.